Thursday, February 02, 2006

Fantasies

I am sure that we all have fantasies. Whether it is to be fabulously wealthy and live in a mansion or to be a critically acclaimed and popular actor/actress.

My fantasies include versions of those but they also include those of the sexual variety. I would think that my fantasies are not different from other peoples sexual fantasies in that the things and acts in them are stuff that I like to do or would like to do but have not tried yet.

Here are some things that recur in my fantasies:
  • A woman that is aggressive and takes charge of how, where and when.
  • A woman that talks during the act. Moaning and yelling out are good, too.
  • Women with long hair recur in most of my fantasies. I particularly like brunettes and red heads.
  • Women with "average" bodies. I am not looking for the super model type. A "real" woman (flaws and all) will excite me more than any other. This is probably why amateur porn works the best for me.
  • Sexual surprises! What I mean is like coming home to see my wife waiting for me naked and masturbating - that'll never happen but a guy can dream! Better yet, finding out after we sit down for dinner in a restaurant that she is not wearing panties. Same thing, my wife would never even think of doing that.
  • A woman that squirts. I have yet to find one but I have been told that it's all in where, when and how you stimulate the g-spot. I've been searching for the right combination of that for years with my wife but no luck yet. I never knew about it before I got married so I can't say that any of the women I encountered could do it or not. If I ever played around outside my marriage I think that would be a quest for me.
  • Making a woman squirm in ecstasy while I eat her out. I have done this many times in real life and it is a powerful feeling. My technique is such that if my tongue and lips are not numb and tired when I'm done then I have not done it right or long enough.
  • Sex in public. I have sort of done this in real life while I was stationed in Texas but that was in a closed public park late at night and I don't think it counts. I'm willing to learn to be more public by starting small like in a movie theater and then on to a public rest room.
  • Sex in a pool. There is something about swimming nude AND having sex that just gets me.

I could go on but I am just getting frustrated and the wife and I already had sex this week so I don't think she'd give it up tonight.

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